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  • ^%%&^%*&^$ing LIVID!!!!!!!!!!!

    Ive just had a verbal warning from my 'boss' for someone else more senior than me not doing a job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    You have no idea how livid i am and i really need to ****ing swear.

    Im not usd to being angry so Im fighting back the tears and shaking uncontrollably!!!!

    Im glad to say I put the phone down on him twice.......but he b*llocked me for that too.
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  • #2
    Why have you been bo**ocked for someone else? Put the blame squarely back on the shoulders of the tosser who cocked up.

    I am the same I don't like confrontation (don't get me wrong I am no walk over and stand up for myself when I really need to) however I get that I want to cry because I can't get out what I want to get out.

    Bet your are tempted to tell the boss to stick his job where the sun don't shine but take a breath, try to calm down and explain to your boss what happended and why it isn't you who should be coping it.

    Sorry

    Lisa
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    • #3
      That is SO horrid. Sending big hug. I hate it when I get all shaky and weepy when I'm angry - I just get angrier and then more shaky and weepy. Sending ANOTHER big hug ....
      Mary
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      • #4
        I swear one of my top bosses knew about the job otherwise I wouldnt know who to have assigned it to.
        Top boss says he knew nothing about it.
        Boss who bo**ocked me asked me if Id asked him about it, I said whats the point as his story isnt going to change is it!!

        When the sh*t hits the fan,blame the receptionist.
        It really annoys me as its only recently that my boss has tried to turn this sh*thole of a company into a proper business, all of a sudden i get it in the neck for something that some one else did...or didnt do.

        I bet nothing else will be said and il still get the blame.
        The person whose fauly it was didnt get a verbal warning and he even admitted it was his fault.He said he will speak to my boss.

        This place is a joke.

        IM SO NARKED OFF I CANT THINK OR TYPE STRAIGHT!!!!
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        • #5
          Another thing that p****es me right off is that my boss that had a go at me never does it face to face(admittedly thats a good thing as I would probably have crumbled and apologised)but he hates confrontation too so he will avoid dealing with anything face to face if he can.
          I hate bosses that do that.
          He kept saying he was really angry, I said I was angry too then he had a go at me for being angry!!!!!!!!


          Mr M, I apologise for my naughty language, I dont mean to degrade your lovely forum but just had to rant.
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          • #6
            Walk right into your bosses office and talk to him face to face and see what he says. Explain who a%sed it up and they are going to have a word with him. Wont be so easy to rant and rave and blame you when you are 2 feet in front of him. Easier for you to reach out and smack him one on the chops.

            Sorry.

            Lisa
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            • #7
              Big hug coming your way... but it sounds like a big bottle of wine might do better!!!
              full time mum and very very part time crafter.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Mary View Post
                That is SO horrid. Sending big hug. I hate it when I get all shaky and weepy when I'm angry - I just get angrier and then more shaky and weepy. Sending ANOTHER big hug ....

                Thanks, I could do with some alcohol as well.

                Yep lisa, I need to get to the bottom of it for my own piece of mind.I need to know if the engineer responsible has actually told my boss.Then extract a (meaningless) apology from my boss(as Im peed off so much an apology would mean nothing).

                I hate being spoken to the way he spoke to me.None of my other bosses have said a word, surely as its their company they shuold say something if its that important!!!!

                Im amazed that as the receptionist, am considered the f*** up of this cr*p company.

                Believe it or not im alot calmer than I was earlier.
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                • #9
                  I think everyone's been in that position...taking the fall for someone else mistakes. I found out by bitter experience that the best thing is to be cool about the whole thing.
                  I used to fly off the handle at work and admittedly it got me a promotion once but it also caused me to walk out of 3-4 jobs!...I'm such a drama queen!
                  The best thing to do is calmly explain why the situation is not your fault, explain who's fault it is, why it's not fair you're taking the blame and how it's making you feel...then make a record of the whole thing. You can critisize this government for lots of things but one thing it has done is give employees rights and employers have to play things so by the book otherwise they loose their shirts in tribunals!
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                  • #10
                    Thanks for the kind words.

                    What gets to me is that this place is so wishy washy and I was accused with such venom that Im doubting my actions of what i did.
                    Its only by a miracle that I recalled my version of what happened.It was a local call therefore I DO NOT dictate who does the call therefore I had to ask someone else.

                    Beleive me I wanted to walk out and have wanted to many a time before today.
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                    • #11
                      Aww big hug Seahorse, that is so horrible and know how you feel, I hate confrontation of any sort and always start to shake and cry the angrier I get. Sounds like you are calming down now so now is the best time to confront it and state your case, but how lovely would it be to get an apology and then be able to say stick it where the sun don;t shine. Your boss sounds like a coward if he can;t speak to you face to face and shouldn;t be in that position if he has no people skills.

                      Hope your day brightens up for you. Wish we cold cheer you up the way you do us so often!!
                      Jo x

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                      • #12
                        More blame and im in tears.
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                        • #13
                          You are kidding me on - have you spoken to your boss face to face. Get a hold of the t*t that made the mistake and drag him in with you - don't be the fall guy for someone else. Fair enough we all make mistakes and if it was my fault I would take the rollocking on the chin and learn from it. If it isn't my fault I sure as hell wont take the blame for someone else.

                          Sorry.

                          Lisa
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by candles by lisa View Post
                            You are kidding me on - have you spoken to your boss face to face. Get a hold of the t*t that made the mistake and drag him in with you - don't be the fall guy for someone else. Fair enough we all make mistakes and if it was my fault I would take the rollocking on the chin and learn from it. If it isn't my fault I sure as hell wont take the blame for someone else.

                            Sorry.

                            Lisa
                            DITTO!
                            I think Lisa is going to come running down South and bash your boss in!
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by beadsbydesign View Post
                              DITTO!
                              I think Lisa is going to come running down South and bash your boss in!
                              Too piggin right - I really hate it when the boss bullies cause that's all he is doing - but he is obviously a wimp or he would have torn a strip off of the guy whose fault it is - but ow no lets go and pick on the receptionist!!!

                              Sorry

                              Lisa
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