Hi
I know this is not an Agony aunt Column, But this is that type of query!!
Might be a bit long winded, but will try to shorten!!
Ok Last April, A Friend said she would like to go on a caravan holiday as her daughter won a dancing scholarship (so no dancing lesson fees for 1 year). She said she would give the money that was saved from the lessons for me to save for her!!
Back in June she had saved just £50, but asked for it back!.
The caravan Holiday was booked and deposit paid by me and full amount due begining of July.
Told friend this and for the 1st 2 weeks of July she kept saying i will have it next week......Finally got a cheque from her for her half and sent the 2 cheques off to caravan owner. A week later a phonecall, Yes you guessed it.......Cheque had bounced.
MONDAY
Phoned Friend, who just said oh yeh I got a letter about that, don't know why as money is in the bank!! (no apologies for me being hassled by the caravan owner)
THURSDAY
No sign of any money - was going to cancel holiday, but that evening her Daughters Granddad died, so I thought I will just send the cheque. ( I felt mean saying to her daughter, sorry about your granddad and btw your not going on holiday either)
NEXT FEW days
Keeps saying I will have money on such and such.
I ask what has happened to the money in the bank.....It's gone on bills etc She had actually never had enough to cover the cheque etc and just kept fobbing me off. She admits telling me lies!
Last week
She said i have some money here and the rest on friday..........came and went no money no contact either.........then I hear that Friday night she is at the pictures!!!
I send her a text saying I cannot afford to go away and will put the holiday on ebay let me know what is what!!
She text back saying she will have x amount on such and such don't cancel!!
We are due to go away this Sat and since the text on Friday I have not heard from her!!
I am left feeling rather sick by all this and am wondering if I should just go by myself as
A - I really don't think we would even get along anymore
B - Can't imagine she will pay up before we go
C - Have any money when we are away
So, just wondering what would YOU do???
Any advice gratefully received!!
I know this is not an Agony aunt Column, But this is that type of query!!
Might be a bit long winded, but will try to shorten!!
Ok Last April, A Friend said she would like to go on a caravan holiday as her daughter won a dancing scholarship (so no dancing lesson fees for 1 year). She said she would give the money that was saved from the lessons for me to save for her!!
Back in June she had saved just £50, but asked for it back!.
The caravan Holiday was booked and deposit paid by me and full amount due begining of July.
Told friend this and for the 1st 2 weeks of July she kept saying i will have it next week......Finally got a cheque from her for her half and sent the 2 cheques off to caravan owner. A week later a phonecall, Yes you guessed it.......Cheque had bounced.
MONDAY
Phoned Friend, who just said oh yeh I got a letter about that, don't know why as money is in the bank!! (no apologies for me being hassled by the caravan owner)
THURSDAY
No sign of any money - was going to cancel holiday, but that evening her Daughters Granddad died, so I thought I will just send the cheque. ( I felt mean saying to her daughter, sorry about your granddad and btw your not going on holiday either)
NEXT FEW days
Keeps saying I will have money on such and such.
I ask what has happened to the money in the bank.....It's gone on bills etc She had actually never had enough to cover the cheque etc and just kept fobbing me off. She admits telling me lies!
Last week
She said i have some money here and the rest on friday..........came and went no money no contact either.........then I hear that Friday night she is at the pictures!!!
I send her a text saying I cannot afford to go away and will put the holiday on ebay let me know what is what!!
She text back saying she will have x amount on such and such don't cancel!!
We are due to go away this Sat and since the text on Friday I have not heard from her!!
I am left feeling rather sick by all this and am wondering if I should just go by myself as
A - I really don't think we would even get along anymore
B - Can't imagine she will pay up before we go
C - Have any money when we are away
So, just wondering what would YOU do???
Any advice gratefully received!!
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