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candles by lisa
28-06-2007, 10:24 AM
...my little girl is in primary 7 and cause we stay in sunny Scotland her last day at primary is tomorrow.

I can't believe it I am not old enough to have 2 kids at secondary!!! - well I am but I certainly don't feel it.

I was at her last school church service yesterday, today the P7's are doing a variety show for the whole school - they have been practicing it for months and months - no teacher in put at all only the P7 pupiles. Nicola and her friend are doing a dance from our dancing display (which is tomorrow too!!), then she is being an old granny because they are doing a weakest link thing - I had to put her hair up in a bun this morning and she has taken one of my really old suits to school with her and a pair of specks to look like a granny - really funny.

Tomorrow we have booked a surprise for Nicola and 7 of her friends. When they come out of school a pink limo will be waiting to take them for the hour - thought it was quite a nice way to celebrate their last days of being the babies!!!

Cheers.

Lisa

:D

beadsbydesign
28-06-2007, 10:42 AM
Lisa it sounds really great. lets have some photos!

I felt very strange when my boys went up to the senior school. You feel as though they will never survive, the difference from a parental point of view is scarey. With primary you can just drop in to talk to the teacher and it's all very careing, whereas with the senior schools you feel at a distance. They have so many teachers and there are so many children it'd overwhelming.
The kids cope though ad within a couple of weeks you begin to think what the heck was I worrying about?

It's been quite funny for me because the boys go to my old schoola and have lots of my teachers who taught me 20+ years ago.

candles by lisa
28-06-2007, 11:02 AM
I know what you mean - at least she got 2 days induction at Boclair and she is really excited about going to the BIG school.

My son Conner is already at secondary he is going into 4th year. Like you they go to the same school I went to. They actually have the very same guidance teacher as I had. When Nicola went up for the induction days last week the teacher asked her name and he said to her I think I taught your mother and I know I am teaching your brother - she was sooooooo embarrassed cause everybody was watching (or so she says).

The changes between primary and secondary are huge, my son went from a wee boy to a big man over night (it seemed) - Nicola has got her orders in for the school uniform already, she wants 3/4 length sleeved blouse, black skirt/trousers and a black tank top!!.

Cheers.

Lisa

:D

JBJB
28-06-2007, 11:28 AM
My baby starts primary school in September.

Am I a bad mum in saying I can't wait!?

All that peace and quiet while I get on with my work. No breaking away every 5 minutes to look at this, or change that.

Oh I am. I'm a bad mum aren't I?

I won't be one of those mums sniffing at the gate, I'll be going "what time is it I pick him up? See ya!"

I am sooooo bad!

Heidijw
28-06-2007, 11:44 AM
I'm with you - no crying at the school gates!! Mind you, I had been putting my youngest on a school bus from when she was 3 to go to nursery!! (we were in germany and housing a long way from nursery so a bus did the rounds). Fortunatley all 3 of my girls have been as desperate to go to school as I was to send them!

Mind you, all that free time you think you're going to have is a myth - sure it passes at double speed to the rest of the day!

JBJB
28-06-2007, 11:49 AM
Mind you, all that free time you think you're going to have is a myth - sure it passes at double speed to the rest of the day!

It's not so much the time I'm looking forward to more the fact that I can start and finish a project IN ONE GO !!

Tip Top
28-06-2007, 01:07 PM
Both my boys are September babies and won't start school till 2008 and 2010.
I work full time but they are only at nursery 4 and 3 days respectively.
So on a Friday morning I'm out of the door with not a care in the world as husband does the childcare on a Friday:D

Am I a bad mother too?!!:slap:

swirlyarts
28-06-2007, 02:11 PM
My baby starts primary school in September.

Am I a bad mum in saying I can't wait!?

All that peace and quiet while I get on with my work. No breaking away every 5 minutes to look at this, or change that.

Oh I am. I'm a bad mum aren't I?

I won't be one of those mums sniffing at the gate, I'll be going "what time is it I pick him up? See ya!"

I am sooooo bad!

Not at all!! I love it when Anya isn't here in the mornings and although it sounds bad I'm really looking forward to Tara starting nursery too :o It's not for another 2 and a bit years but......

Candlebella
28-06-2007, 02:56 PM
My youngest Mollie starts Nursery in September .... I won't know what to do with myself! .... em well I will! :mf: though I will miss her so much, she loves her cuddles ... My eldest daughter will start class one.

I think it's a long day my youngest turns 3 on Saturday, in September she will be in Nursery from 9.15 til 3.15 :o She also likes her sleeps! ... she'll be one of the little ones falling asleep in assembly!


Gaynor.

colourart
28-06-2007, 05:18 PM
I think it's a long day my youngest turns 3 on Saturday, in September she will be in Nursery from 9.15 til 3.15 :o She also likes her sleeps! ... she'll be one of the little ones falling asleep in assembly!

My youngest is 3 in about 3 weeks and she doesn't even go to playgroup yet. She's due to start in September, 3, 2.5 hour sessions. I will miss her, but having some 'me' time will be nice, even if I do just race around cleaning. Might spare a little time for the fourm now and again though;)

Apple Tree Crafts
28-06-2007, 06:26 PM
....all you young things! I feel positively ancient!

I have one child in each education system - one nearly finished Uni, one in A Levels at college, one in secondary and one in primary school.

Lisa's children go to my old school too! The pink limo is just inspired!

I was never one of these mums who stand at the school gates crying. Doesn't help themselves or their children who get very distressed when mummy cries.

Jules

candles by lisa
28-06-2007, 07:24 PM
Nope never been a school gate mummy - I have always worked full time so the childminder would need to stand at the school gates but I really don't think she would be weeping for them though. I always take the kids to school when they first start and at the start of each new year - but even when they first started school I didn't cry because I saw they were too busy enjoying themselves to worry about what dear old mum was doing!!

I'll get the pictures of the limo - so dying to see her face when she comes down the hill. I don't remember my last day at primary but I remember my last day at Boclair - bunked off early - walked 2 miles home and that was it - started work on the Monday. Them were the days (yeah right!!!).

Cheers.

Lisa
:D

Tip Top
28-06-2007, 07:35 PM
....all you young things! I feel positively ancient!

Jules

Nah - I was old when I started having the bread snatchers!!:mf:

Apple Tree Crafts
28-06-2007, 07:39 PM
....can't say it stuck in my mind. Couldn't wait to leave such horrors as Miss Murchie, Mr Smith, & Dawson Murray behind me...but missed Dr Wham, Miss Stevens, Mrs Murray and my favourite, Mrs Ainslie. And the music teacher who taught me to sing, Mr Evans, he was lovely.

My first day sticks in my mind, but not the last. Very first lesson going into the last term of 2nd year (not year 9 as it is now) was technical drawing. I'd just moved up from the sort of english secondary school where girls did Home Ec and boy's did woodwork,metal work and techy drawing.

The teacher said put your desk up and we'll get started. Put my desk up??? Eh? Every other kid fell about laughing.....very memorable!


Jules

JBJB
28-06-2007, 08:19 PM
Nah - I was old when I started having the bread snatchers!!:mf:

Me too - I was 32 when my ankle-biter finally came along!

BeadsbyLili
28-06-2007, 09:46 PM
....all you young things! I feel positively ancient!

I have one child in each education system - one nearly finished Uni, one in A Levels at college, one in secondary and one in primary school.

Jules

I'm with you... although my little one wont start school for another year yet my eldest has just finished her a-levels & college for ever (eek... out into the big world now my child). It feels strange to have brought someone to the brink of adulthood when I sometimes struggle with it myself (LOL):D

Tip Top
29-06-2007, 08:24 AM
Me too - I was 32 when my ankle-biter finally came along!

I was 31 and 33 - just never got round to it before
heheheh :D

Candlebella
30-06-2007, 06:28 PM
I was 29 and 32 never been the same since! :mf:

Just unwinding from my now 3 year olds party not sure who is more exhausted! mine next!! ...... No parties for me!

Tip Top
30-06-2007, 06:43 PM
I was 29 and 32 never been the same since! :mf:

Just unwinding from my now 3 year olds party not sure who is more exhausted! mine next!! ...... No parties for me!

I've just got back from a 4 year olds party at a Wacky Warehouse...... It feels like a party every other weekend as both kids are at nursery! I'm fortunate (or unlucky!) as both boys have their birthdays exactly a week apart so I can have a joint one and get it over and done with :mf:
Think I might hire a church hall this year......:D

colourart
30-06-2007, 07:22 PM
I've just got back from a 4 year olds party at a Wacky Warehouse...... It feels like a party every other weekend as both kids are at nursery!

Been at a 5 year olds party too today at a ball pool, climbing frame place. Lots of noise, lots of food and now I have a slight headache, what a surprise. My dd's 3rd birthday party is on my hubbies birthday, so he can have a jelly and ice cream party too.:D

candles by lisa
30-06-2007, 08:22 PM
...............all the girls came out of school yesterday in floods of tears - they didn't want to leave school (which was new to me because the week earlier had been the secondary school induction days and they were all desperate to go to BIG school). I felt a big lump in my throat too - when I think back I hated school so much I only ever felt glad when I left!!!

Anyway the Limo pulls up and all the mums ask the girls to have a look - we told the girls to go and ask the driver who he was looking for - when he said them all the tears dried up - you ought to have heard the noise my god 8 girls can sure scream!!! Needless to say after there wee hurl there was not a wet eye in site - brillaint way to end their primary days so it was - I would have had Nicola moaning all night and crying but all they were doing was talking about how good the limo was.

When I get the pictures of the screaming harpies I will post them.

Cheers.

Lisa
:mf:

BeadsbyLili
30-06-2007, 08:28 PM
Now that was a brilliant idea ! What a lovely group of mums :)

Annette
01-07-2007, 10:05 PM
Lisa

Youy've made them a memory that will last for ever. When they meet up after they leave school, college and they start work they will always remember the day they left primary (can't remember what you called it - sorry)... the day the pink limo was waiting for them. Well done.

Candlebella
02-07-2007, 03:24 PM
...............all the girls came out of school yesterday in floods of tears - they didn't want to leave school (which was new to me because the week earlier had been the secondary school induction days and they were all desperate to go to BIG school). I felt a big lump in my throat too - when I think back I hated school so much I only ever felt glad when I left!!!

Anyway the Limo pulls up and all the mums ask the girls to have a look - we told the girls to go and ask the driver who he was looking for - when he said them all the tears dried up - you ought to have heard the noise my god 8 girls can sure scream!!! Needless to say after there wee hurl there was not a wet eye in site - brillaint way to end their primary days so it was - I would have had Nicola moaning all night and crying but all they were doing was talking about how good the limo was.

When I get the pictures of the screaming harpies I will post them.

Cheers.

Lisa
:mf:

What a great idea ... my daughther would just love that! - she loves school !